A journey to her heart.. ( part 3 )
July 20th, 2008
I once said, ” i don’t believe in long distance relationship.. ” Yet she manage to change my perspective which i once thought impossible.
We went back to Addlestone, i helped her move her stuffs out. It’s time to say good bye to Golden House. She got a new job at Whitstable, Kent. Her current boss drove us there by car. But instead of moving her stuffs to her new place, they sent us to birchington, where my younger sister stays. It’s a lovely town, with lovely neighbourhood, and lovely seaside. We went for a bicycle ride, it’s alot of fun! i forgot when was the last time i rid on a bicycle, despite all the fun.. it actually gave me quite a painful experience too..

Shirni, my sister - Ying and me went to stay in London for a few days to visit, snap some photos and of course, shopping!! We revisited the London Eye, Tower Bridge, London Bridge :) so that we all know the difference, and also Oxford Street for more shopping!! We also went to Madame Tussauds wax musuem in London.. snapped alot of photos with the celebrities and also Madame Tussauds herself! One of the place i’ve been wanting to visit is The Royal Observatory in Greenwich. Greenwich gives me a strong feeling that this is the place we should go, complementing our long distance relationship of being half a world apart. We had a great time there. Just a suggestion, anyone who wishes to visit there should ride a bike because of the long distance uphill walk path.


3rd July is my sis’s birthday, we were at TGI Friday celebrating. She seems very happy that day. I guess she never expected that we’d be together during her birthday :) It’s good timing. Well, the feeling of having companion celebrating your birthday halfway across the globe is really something.

I really enjoyed myself all this while. Although it’s a short 16 days trip to UK, but i got to spend alot of quality time with the one i love most, Shirni, and with my younger sister. I wished i’d be able to stay longer, but it’s a pity that i couldn’t. I’d need to come back to where i belong, where my obligations belong. It’s sad to say goodbye, and it’s heart-tearing to think that we have to be apart again. I remember she told me through the phone once, that the secret of maintaining long distance relationship, is to be happy and cherish what we are having. Positive influences make you stronger, build your faith, gets you going. I cherish the relationship that we have, that’s why i’m not sad that i’m leaving her for now. Because, deep down, both of us know, future awaits. There are still alot more pages in life we need to fill colours with. I hugged her, kissed her lips and forehead and told her to take good care of herself. We will need to strive harder for the future to come. I’ll be waiting at home, waiting her to come back to me. Hugged my sis, said good byes and i walked into the departure area. My emotion was like submarine, sank into the bottom of the sea at that moment. I turned back and saw both of them were smiling.. so i walked on..
Another 13 hours.. another 10868km. I reached KLIA. Pin is picking me up from airport. I was waiting at roadside. Shirni called, things are getting back to how it is. I’m here, she’s there. Well, she told me through the phone that they cried on the journey back home. Hehe. Well, i shed some tears too on my flight back.. shhhhh :P I love you Shirni. I love you guys so much.

‘God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse.’
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July 20th, 2008 at 4:00 am
marcusy.. i tried to not shed any tears while reading this, especially the last few sentences, and i did NOT shed any indeed.. :) though i must say, it must be a hard few seconds when departing.. and keep up the kudos and mojos for the distance..
July 20th, 2008 at 5:21 am
It’s always challenging when you’re dealing with LDR. I believe this will strengthen the bond between both of you. All the best! =)
July 20th, 2008 at 5:24 am
Thanks ammie :) Thank you very much~
July 20th, 2008 at 5:26 am
jian jian, sure i will keep the kudos and mojos up at all times! =)
July 20th, 2008 at 7:35 am
i smile all da way while reading thru ur blog brother!
i was unable to explain my feelling how glad im to see all those things u post up here~hehe..feelling of missing u all was so badly~im just so so glad tat this is happening for both of u~haha..summore i never been inform abt this at da very 1st place~haha..anyway best of all for all of u!cheers~
July 20th, 2008 at 9:01 pm
well written post. full of emotion..
i feel so “xin-xuan” after read..
hope you guys can be togehter happily soon..
good luck and all the best bro.
July 21st, 2008 at 4:45 pm
i finally got to read IT!! it seems there’s alot of waiting in life,,,but some r really worth waiting for :)
i agree wif everyone…this is DAMN touching!!!
i admit…i cried
i cried when we finally see each other again,
i cried when he;s here,
i cried when he go back,
i cry reading tis,
cry writing tis too
(i m like forever crying…i m not sad,,,jst overwhelm)
words cant seems to express exactly what i m feeling now
i m just really happy and greatful that i hav someone that love me back~
i prefer tp just look at things from d bright side,,we wil live happier…
‘God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse.’
love u darling~
see u soon~